first day with my Gi

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

It Finally Happened...

      I'm starting to like jiu-jitsu.  It took a year, and I still feel like newer people surpass me, but I find myself searching the internet and wanting to read jiu-jitsu magazines.  I even enjoyed watching UFC fights, not just the social part of it.  
     I read an article about Kyra Gracie in Jiu-Jitsu Style magazine that had me searching around for any seminars that she will be doing, and thinking about when I can be in NY and take a private lesson from her.  There was also an article about women training Jiu-Jitsu.  While, it would be neat to hear more about women in the U.S. to connect with, this article about the UK was certainly relatable. There was still the sentiment about size as more significant than gender in a training partner.  I don't like it when issues of gender inequality are completely ignored.  While the act of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu training is practical, and may feel comfortable for women in many cases, I don't think it can be a vacuum where societal context doesn't matter at all.  Much of my experience is as a sisterly role to the 30 and over men, which is not necessarily a bad experience. But when i'm rolling with someone that says, "good girl,"  i know it is a supportive compliment, but it does exemplify how it's a 'woman's role' to be taken care of and protected.  
     I definitely work hard on defense, no matter who I grapple, but if I am in an offensive position against someone who is big and strong like a tree trunk, it feels like trying to bend steel to break their posture in my guard, or like i am a little feather if i am on top.  Let's just stay positive and say that I get an extra good workout  :-)  


  1. Cool - glad you liked the magazine! Out of interest, did you get the print version, or digital?

    I assume you're already aware of the following, but there are a lot of options for connecting with women in the US. Blogging is one good way (I'm guessing you already read blogs like BJJ Grrl, Allie the Clearbelt, Grappling Girl's Guild etc?), and then there is the regular Women's Grappling Camp.

  2. Hey Lady glad to see you are still training. I have a friend in NYC who I used to train with from time to time name Emily Kwok. She has been been grappling for years and amongst other noteworthy achievements took Gold in the 2010 No-Gi Worlds and Silver in the 2011 No-Gi Worlds. She recently released a DVD program with Stephan Kesting called "How to defeat a bigger stronger opponent" Trust me when I say this has got to be good because both Emily and Stephan are great instructors. Your buddy New York